A Belly Dance Lesson for your Hen Night -
Make your Hen Night go with a Wiggle
Belly dancing is ideal for hen nights or hen weekends
because it is traditionally an activity for women. In
Arabic societies it is passed down from mother to daughter and
is performed by women for women at women-only parties.
That's not to say that men do not perform belly dance, or their
own form of it, but it is a form of dance ideally suited to the
female form.
Although in Western Cultures it is often thought as a form
of erotic dance designed to seduce men, enhanced by the wearing
of extremely skimpy costumes, particularly prevalent in Turkey,
the home of belly dance is Egypt, where it is rare to see
dancers wearing tremendously revealing costumes. Even in
cabaret, dancers are expected to wear mesh bodies over their
midriffs when they dance in Egypt. Egyptian dance is
flirtatious and coquettish, but never all-out sexual in
style.
In this sense belly dancing caters for everyone at a hen
night. Younger women with nice figures may choose to be
sparsely clad and show off their bodies. Older women or
those with less body confidence are not regarded as inferior,
just different - they may well choose to cover up their
bellies, or upper arms, and legs - and that is just fine
too. Moving the hips and torso enhances the sensuality of
the female body, but an Egyptian dance class is never
embarrassing. Thus, women of all ages, shapes and sizes
can instantly join in together and have fun.
If used for a hen night, belly dancing is best done at the
start of the evening, before very much alcohol has been
consumed, and whilst the participants have the highest energy
levels and concentration. The whole hen night evening
could be Egyptian in theme, with Middle Eastern food and music
throughout the night. The belly dancing could be followed
by a massage and pampering session, which would also be in
keeping with this celebration of the feminine and sensual in
all women.
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